I’m not too concerned with whether the relationship has an official label or not, but I do want to find someone to share my life with. For a long time I have felt incomplete. I think I was designed to be a coupled monogamous being. The single life does not suit me. I don’t like it. But I don’t have too much choice at the moment.
I don’t know if having kids is a good idea or not. I have that desire, but I’m not sure I have the energy required to be the kind of father I would demand of myself. I can’t go to soccer games. I can’t play football in the backyard. I can’t support them financially. I wish love was all that was required to be a good parent. Maybe I’ll find a lady friend that wouldn’t mind having a small army of corgis.